vagaybond:

if you blame trans people for getting misgendered

(for example: “you look masculine/feminine/like how i think your assigned gender should look so how you should expect this”)

you are transphobic and are contributing to mental health issues in trans people.

this is very serious victim blaming.

it is not the fault of trans people that we live in a cissexist society. we are extremely well aware that we will get misgendered.

you are doing nothing but harm trans people when you tell us things like this.

if you want to be a decent person, talk shit to cissexist people for the crap they put us through instead of blaming us for their ignorance.

we do not have to be tolerant of a world which tries everything it can to erase us from existence.