princeofaros:

I saw someone claim you can’t be attracted to nonbinary people because that’s fetishization and I don’t understand that at all. It doesn’t make any sense.

Like, how is it fetishization to have any sort of attraction to any gender except these special two? What makes the two binary genders so special that attraction to them isn’t fetishizing them and is perfectly okay? Either it’s okay to be attracted to any gender specifically or all gender based attraction is fetishization.

Also, in these discussions, everyone focuses on nonbinary people (whom it’s okay for them to be attracted to other nonbinary people) and cis people, but where do binary trans men and women fit into this?

Also, it always centers around cis bi people being attracted to nonbinary people for some reason, and it’s always focused on how that bi person is not actually bi but straight and a chaser. No one mentions the cis bi guy who’s attracted to men and nonbinary people but not women. Nor the trans bi guy who’s into men, women, and nonbinary people. Is anyone else smelling hints of biphobia in this?

If you’re attracted to someone, then find out they’re nonbinary, and they’re not aligned with any gender at all, and you’re still attracted to them, is that a fetish?

None of it makes any sense, can someone explain this shit to the binary trans man who’s bi and attracted to men, women, and nonbinary people?