f1rstperson:

letsmoveourbootybutts:

letsmoveourbootybutts:

Wouldn’t it be cool if lgbp aces & aros were acknowledged by the community we’re ostensibly supposed to be a part of as more than rhetorical devices/weapons to bring out against the Her Ace/Aro invasion

Like remember when lgbp aces were talking about how over sexualized and therefore inaccessible a lot of safe spaces were and were told they were homophobic and disrespecting their own history

Remember when aro lgbp people were told that their very existence is the cause of nonstraight people being oversexualized

I’m exhausted and tired

I made exactly this post months ago and I can’t tell you how mad I’m getting that lgbp aces and aros are still having to point this out. All these people were nowhere to be found when people were saying bi aro women are responsible for the hypersexualization of bi women. That argument has shown up again with plenty of ace/aro groups, and no one says a word. Non-ace/non-aro people just fucking disperse when it comes to actually defending us, but want points for taking ten seconds out of ignoring our existence to shit on a specific group of ace/aro people.