evilqueerinclusionist:

bi-boomer:

evilqueerinclusionist:

a-polite-melody:

Hey, so a blog I’ve been following for a while, @multisexualsafespace (tagging you because it’s only fair), has opened up on their stance that the community is for people who face homophobia and transphobia, and that someone attracted to multiple genders but not their own doesn’t belong in the multi community or the LGBT+ community because they don’t face homophobia. They also said some things about non binary genders that made me uncomfortable (attraction to male-aligned nb people is attraction to men), but as someone who’s cis I don’t feel like I’m in a position to say anything beyond this about it.

This is a warning to anyone, like me, who doesn’t share those views that this blog isn’t a safe space for us. Also a general warning to look through a blog thoroughly before you follow it.

(In case it isn’t clear, my stance is that anyone attracted to multiple genders is multi, and does face some marginalization/discrimination under mspec antagonism regardless of what those multiple genders are. Biphobia/any form of mspec antagonism is not a subset of homophobia and can be experienced without it, and therefore all people attracted to multiple genders belong in mspec spaces and the LGBT+ community.)

Yeah I saw the post. Mod Norah is a fucking aphobe. Also kind of exorsexist. The Oder mod that responded reads as more moderate but may still have aphobic opinions.

Any, not really a safe space if you ask me.

And here is mod Norah uncritically reblogging a dubious “history lesson” post from notorious aphobe sleepdontvisit, complete with a nasty nugget of aphobia tucked into it in a manner that I’m sure sleepdontvisit and mod Norah think is very subtle.

And in regard to what OP described above, there’s plenty in this post and this post.

I am sorry but SDV is a fucking idiot who doesn’t know a thing about queer history. Also she hates bi and trans people (unless they agree with her) and tries to paint us all as predators. Fuck anyone who supports SDV tbh.