backlash against allo- and monosexual relies on the belief that /everything/ is a privilege-oppression dynamic. not everything is that clear-cut. the dynamic between binary trans ppl and nb ppl, for instance. or that ppl who are physically disabled and ppl who are neurodivergent both face ableism – but in v different ways, and can be ableist towards each other. allo just means “not a-spec.” monosexual just means “not attracted to multiple genders.” they dont imply a privilege-oppression dynamic.