radiantsapphics:

lesbian-ace-in-space:

You can’t say your blog is “a safe space for all wlw” if you reblog posts that make a spec wlw uncomfortable. 

 Don’t say “a spec wlw included” or “all wlw are welcome here” if you: 

• reblog aphobic content (both explicit and implicit) 

• reblog from aphobes 

• refuse to acknowledge a post is aphobic even if an a spec wlw tells you it’s making them uncomfortable 

• don’t support a part of our identity

As a neurodivergent ace wlw, I deserve to know if your space is really safe for me, or if it’s dangerous for my mental health. 

If it’s not safe for me I just need to know, so I won’t follow you. 

 I am a lesbian, I am ace, I am neurodivergent: the wlw part of my identity doesn’t erase my sexual orientation and seeing aphobic content in “wlw safe spaces” triggers my anxiety.

Just so y’all know, this blog is absolutely a safe space for aspec wlw. Aphobia won’t be condoned here, ever.