more generally there’s really never a way to prove, 100% that someone’s a terf, or that something is ever intended to be transphobic, if they’re careful about their word choices (more careful than ive ever seen a radfem be but lmao just run w the hypothetical)
but instead of that, just a bit of life advice here, u can ask how does this look to trans people? is it positive? what messages do trans people receive, and is it conducive to their mental health and survival? because they’re a lot easier to answer, and we’re probably telling you already if u listen
like im not up for debating “is this malicious or did it only look bad?” because feigning this shit has been in the conservative playbook for centuries as a way of wasting our energy on a debate designed to be fundamentally pointless. don’t fall for it lmao
