femsaphique:

bilations:

“You don’t suffer on the same scale as us so I’m just going to ignore your problems” is not and never will be a good argument.

There also isn’t a way to even determine who suffers on what scale. Is there an internationally established oppression index we’re going off? Is there an oppression statistic?

How can people even genuinely state who struggles less or more systematically? Like, especially when a lot of statistics say that a lot of us struggle disproportionately..

Are we going to be like “in many surveys it said people like you only experience violence 33%, we experience violence 33.1% of the time so you all basically don’t experience any violence at all”?

I mean, that is basically what a lot of this is in, except people aren’t going off fact, they’re going off their own social theories. Social theories which are usually like “these people are less oppressed because I say so”.

I want someone to actually come with the “objectively only/most suffering” factors they always speak of. I want points that aren’t just “I think you suffer less because I think you suffer less” coming from someone.