machonaroja:

machonaroja:

machonaroja:

I think I’ve talked about this before but the demonization of polyamory by the gay community on tumblr is really weird and boring.

Like the way people talk about it on here you’d think all polyamorous people are sex crazed abusive hets that are explicitly anti-lesbian or something but like,,, polyamory is and has been a significant part of the lesbian community for a long while and if you guys went outside for two seconds you’d know that lol

Idk like I’ve dated girls who get all their lesbian politics from this hellsite who described polyamory as “a toxic manifestation of queer theory” that was contrary to her marriage-gay ways, like, while we were dating and she knew I was polyamorous and like idk it just really weirds me out that you guys think there’s some weird either/or dichotomy here.