1. yes, there is such thing as ātoo explicit for a pride paradeā andĀ
2. there should absolutely be non-sexual pride events and spaces for people who donāt want to see sexual stuff and/or naked bodies for any reason but
3. donāt let your opinions about what is or isnāt too explicit cross over intoĀ āwhat about the children we canāt expose children to evil degenerate sexā because that, my friend, is dangerous territory
This got more notes than I expected so Iād like to reiterate that I emphatically support the sexuality of Pride and that Pride has always been in part a celebration of queer sexuality. Removing the celebration of queer sex and sexuality from Pride is exactly what homophobes want.Ā
That doesnāt mean that there shouldnāt be sex-free nudity-free whatever-free spaces, just that for every space thatās designed for people who donāt want to see it there should be a space for people who do, a demographic that does and should include teens.Ā āWhat about the childrenā is homophobic rhetoric, even if youāre using the word āminorsā as your buzzword substitution.Ā
Not to mention that removing the sexuality from pride, yes including the kink people (who keep it much classier than any het anyway), is straight-up dangerous for anyone who doesnāt have other access to models of healthy queer sexuality and might end up using porn or fetishy depictions of sexuality as their model instead (because god knows a lot of people work very hard to hide and age-restrict any depiction of healthy queer relationships and sexuality)Ā
Are there boundaries that should exist? Definitely. Stuff likeĀ āno sexual harassmentā comes to mind. Should safe spaces for people who Donāt Want To See It exist? Of course. Should those boundaries and safe spaces entail removing the sexuality from Pride andĀ āwhat about the
childrenminorsā scaremongering? Hell fucking no.Iām not going to tell you what to think. You have every right to form your own opinion on this issue. I do want to say that this is the person who youāre reblogging this post from and if that bothers you you can choose to not reblog it.Ā
Oh, and if you want sex-free orĀ āI donāt consent to see your naked bodyā spaces to exist? Advocate for them! Get in touch with your local Pride organization! Take your tumblr post and copy-paste it into an email if you have to but translate that passion into real world action and you can make a big difference in the world
