pseudo-euphoria:

pseudo-euphoria:

red hot take but debates over whether a character is gay or bi highlight how fraught that distinction is, experientially, for a lot of people

Like I really don’t think people are trying to be obtuse when they say “I think she’s bi cos she’s been with men even tho she hated it” most of the time hey I really think they’re putting that parallel with their own experience and as someone who is nearly 30 and still doesn’t know if I’m lesbian or bi I super get it, that’s all I’m saying