you ever think about how we are literally so starved for complex female characters with actual agency that itâs literally got to the point where every other post is like âDROWN THE DOCTOR!!!!!! PLEASE, CHIBBS, LET HER LOSE CONTROL AND HURT SOMEONE. LET HER TERRIFY HER COMPANIONS. JUST LET HER GO APE SHITTTTTâ
like, this is totally understandable. this is what we already know about the doctor as a character. they do have a dark side and they do get hurt. and yet because sheâs a woman now itâs like â this intrinsic part of their character feels almost out of reach. and to me itâs v clear why.
Here Is What Is Happening â the thing i think a lot of writers donât understand is that female pain within media isnât inherently reductive or a negative stereotype when it is being felt by a character who is strong and has agency. the perverted pain of the hollywood âdamselâ thatâs most obvious in horror films is only reductive because these characters only exist to suffer. their pain isnât for the audience to understand or relate to, itâs to be viewed from the outside voyeuristically and usually from a male POV.
hereâs a question. why do u think âheroâ archetype characters like sam/dean, sherlock, the doctor etc., are always suffering like every gd episode of their respective shows? itâs because theyâre seen as fundamentally strong, powerful (intellectually/physically/possessing extraordinary talents etc.,) and emotionally complex. weakness is then seen as interesting and subversive. you want to see characters behave in ways that are against type â thatâs storytelling. so what happens is that if you donât build up a female character so that sheâs got these elements (and nine times out of ten she wonât because women arenât written within the âheroâ archetype to begin with) her pain, if portrayed at all, will inevitably come across as redundant, and therefore depraved.
so thatâs how we end up with all these cookie cutter female characters who are strong and thatâs it â their whole personality is âstrongâ maybe with a few âflawsâ tossed in. often âflawsâ are whatâs pointed to as being what you need to write a good character â however theyâre not just supposed to be window dressing. story isnât about characters having flaws just because Good Characters Have Flawsâ˘Â â itâs about the psychology behind why people enjoy these specific narratives. the point is to see a heroic character vulnerable enough that they have the opportunity to grow. and the thing is, if you view all women as intrinsically vulnerable at a fundamental level the stories you tell about them are going to be incredibly limited.
