thesneakyfox:

t-high-la420:

t-high-la420:

i…………FOUND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ITS CONTEXT?Β 

KIRK WORRYING THAT HE OBJECTIFIES WOMEN. PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT AND REALLY SOAK THIS IN.Β 

[Image description: The first image is a two-panel Star Trek comic where Kirk asks Bones, β€œBones… do you think I like women?” In the second panel, Bones reacts to this by coughing and spilling his drink all over himself.

In the second image, Bones asks Kirk to clarify his question, asking, β€œAs… uh… As opposed to what?” Kirk replies, saying, β€œAs opposed to feeling threatened by them. I mean, do you think I’m someone who feels uncomfortable being subordinate to, or on par with, a woman? Am I someone who relegates each woman I meet – especially the good-looking ones – to the status of either β€˜I want her’ or β€˜I don’t want her’?”]

mjalti:

listen, when i go to open my mouth & what comes out is 12 degrees of seperation from what the original topic was, u need to connect the dots bitch. think fast. i’m not gonna hold ur hand but we’re leaving now and visiting every topic along the line. wave it goodbye, don’t get hung up on it

furiousgoldfish:

behavioural and emotional patterns of living in abuse:

  • you spend most of your time shut in your room
  • you’re scared of footsteps approaching your door
  • you prefer not to come out unless there’s nobody home
  • when they come back you run to your room/safe place
  • you’re nervous and anxious if you have to spend time in presence of others
  • you try to get away from your home, you wish you could live somewhere else
  • your self-confidence is very low
  • you worry about making too much noise (have a feeling you’ll get yellet at
    or abused for it)
  • you try to move around as silently as possible and try to not be noticed by
    anyone
  • you feel uncomfortable and uneasy sitting at the same table as rest of
    family/housemates
  • you don’t feel like you belong here
  • you feel like a burden to your housemates
  • you don’t feel like you’re worth having around or supporting in any way
  • you don’t feel like anyone will ever love you or believe in you
  • you don’t feel like anything you do is good enough
  • you can’t stand someone watching you do things like cleaning or anything
    else you need to get done
  • you try really hard to still find good points about your life and cling to
    them
  • you strongly worry that you are somehow worse than anyone else
  • you feel like you’re behind on everyone and that you’re failing to live
    your life properly
  • you don’t feel like anything would have changed if you died, or even that
    it would be better if you did

if you’re experiencing most of this, you’re going through abuse. Your value
isn’t in any way less than other humans, and you are absolutely not any kind of
burden. You are human who is forced to live in a way humans aren’t meant to
live. You are in living conditions that disable you from feeling happy,
fulfilled, or even seeing yourself as a human being. Β You are suffering. What is being done to you
is not okay. You deserve better than this.

like I have drunk coffee everyday since i hit, 16 so take this with a grain of salt but. i feel it’s just started getting, addiction-y this over last month. ive started feeling like, Fuck, I need a coffee Right Now, or i’ll explode. it was just a thing i did before without feeling like I Needed to. and I don’t like it it’s just making me more tense. idk what’s different, I’ve been roughly this stressed for ages, ive been this prone to addiction for ages, have my other ways of coping gotten worse or worn out or, what, idk

boydetective:

lilajanet:

Β #can i mention how cool it is to have a variation of sherlock holmes where he says stuff like thisΒ #because it’s importantΒ #and this episode is my favourite so far because it’s surprisingly accurateΒ #and it was just great to hear him say thisΒ #because sherlock holmes is of course intelligent and a modern sherlock would know thisΒ #and even though this holmes does have that social crass and indelicacy he’s softer in some ways to the othersΒ #which is what makes him different and a new take and interesting to watchΒ #he’s a rare fictional example of a character who is pragmatic and driven and a bit socially blunt but also has a firm moral intelligence tooΒ #just because a character can be blunt and rude and not understand that they’ve just insulted someone doesn’t have to meanΒ #that they don’t understand right from wrongΒ  (via teacupsandcyanide)

[Caption: Two gifs of Sherlock Holmes on Elementary. He says,Β β€œVictims of horrific abuse are often protective of their abusers. / It doesn’t mean we should send them back for seconds.”]