[gif 1: the 12th Doctor sits at the end of a very long dining table, eating soup alone. the hall is lit in orange light coming in from huge windows to the side. the camera is zooming in slowly towards them. subtitles read “Or maybe I’m in Hell? That’s okay. I’m not scared of Hell. It’s just Heaven for bad people.”

gif 2: “But how long will I have to be here?”

gif 3: it zooms in quicker as the doctor stops eating and looks up to the camera.

gif 4: a side view, the doctor is hunched over the table, starkly silhouetted by the light from the windows. “Forever?”

gif 5: a close up mostly the doctor’s sleeve. a drop of soup drips slowly off their spoon, then the spoon drops to the table]

fafana20:

“I can’t keep doing this. I can’t! I can’t always do this!
It’s not fair! Clara, it’s just not fair!”

[gif 1: a side view close up of the 12th doctor, sitting on the floor, resting their head back against a glowing white diamond wall and staring off to the side into nowhere.

gif 2: a front on view. the doctor’s head turns forwards very slightly, noticing something down the corridor

gif 3: a long shot down a dark corridor, the doctor sitting down in front of the diamond wall in the distance, staring straight forwards now. a dark shape steps in front of the shot, obscuring everything. a very small fly also flies past]

builtfjordtuff:

sunnyaalisse:

fun fact: procrastination happens to animals too. it’s a naturall thing.

animal equivalents for scrolling tumblr include:
 – hamsters starting to wash their faces in inaproppriate situations
 – hyenas stopping everything and starting to dig holes in the ground.

 – seagulls starting to ruffle their feathers instead of doing important things

this happens for two reasons: 

1) an animal is in the situation where none of the standard scenarious it has are fitting, so it does the next best thing 
(example: hamsters were put in a vibrating bowl, they couldn’t run or attack, so in about a minute they stopped everything and started washing their faces.)

2) an animal has two conflicting instincts fighting for dominance, so the third one, usualy suppressed by them, kicks in.
(example: when two hyenas meet at the border of their territories, they have an instinct to protect their own territory conflict with an instinct not to cross someone else’s. they don’t know if they need to attack or leave, so both start digging holes in the ground.
example: a seagull sitting on the nest needs to protect her children, but also has to go get some food. instead a seagull settles for ruffling her feathers for two hours.)

with humans it’s usually the second reason.
(example: I’m tired and I want to go to sleep, but I should write an essay for tomorrow. both these things are important, so I’m procrastinating them by writing this post.)

nature is beautiful.
I’m gonna go to sleep now.

Honestly, digging holes in the ground to avoid dealing with a confrontation sounds like something I would do.

introvertdragon:

some of yall: hey can we not ignore [insert sexual orientation] please?!

me: you know what thats a good idea we should pay more attention to that becau-

some of yall: we should focus more on [insert sexual orientation] instead of asexuals!!!

me:

can you not like… not do that please

nurselofwyr:

butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway:

selchieproductions:

i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting.

Important thing to remember about intervening in abuse in general. Any actions taken by others to hold the abuser accountable WILL be taken out on the victim and not the person doing the confronting. Do not confront an abuser about their actions unless you know for absolute certain that you can protect their victim from the fallout.

AN ABBREVIATED GUIDE TO ‘holy shit my friend is in an abusive relationship what do I do’