hey is thanos problematic what did he do
he let tony live
Author: peasantchick
It continues to be clear as fucking day to me that the main reason we even have those “this character is aroace” “no, this character is lesbian” debates is because people refuse to acknowledge the vast number of shared experiences that lesbians and aroace women have.
I mean seriously:
- Both groups have to deal with straight men who feel entitled to their bodies as well as navigate the expectation that they need to have a husband/boyfriend.
- Both groups have a tendency to dress in a way that actively subverts the male gaze.
- Lesbians and aroace women share a huge amount of history, including the golden orchid and the spinster movement (see the book: The Spinster and her Enemies).
And that’s just the really obvious stuff. Like there are definitely characters that are canonically lesbian both sexually romanticly, and there are definitely female character that are canonically aroace (although not very many) and those should be respected for what they are, but female characters that are just heavily queer coded in a “I don’t like men” sort of way, but never actually pursue relationships with women and aren’t given any specific labels to go by could just as easily be of ether identity, or they could be an aro lesbian or an ace lesbian. I don’t really understand how these debates are still happening, just acknowledge that these two identities share some similar experiences and move on.
my fav thing in wildlife research is the concept of animals being “trap happy” meaning the same animal goes into a trap on purpose again and again after it’s caught the first time bc it was like “hey…..there was food in there and Zero (0) predators and then they just let me go in the morning…….”
on one hand it fucks up our data but on the other hand……..I Get It you Funky Little Rodents
if it were pouring rain on my walk home from work at night and I found a big metal box full of pizza and a bed where no one else could bother me and the only condition is that in the cold light of day I’d have to face a bunch of scientists weighing me and then letting me go on the sidewalk I’d probably end up in there a lot.
Thinking of doing some patches or pins for my LGBTQIA cryptid and paranormal lovers! Whaddyathink?
Also send me suggestions for more, they’re in development!
[Start ID: digital art in four panels showing Cryptids. The First shows a little Blobby ghost holding a sign that says, “ghosts for gays.” The second shows a werewolf from the side snout up wearing a tank top that reads, “ lycanthrope for lesbians” the third shows a UFO shooting a beam down and in the beam the words, “ aliens For Aces.” And the fourth has Bigfoot wearing white tank top that reads, “bigfoot for bisexual” end ID]
Queer is good
Queer is great
Queer is an active rejection of hate
me, a monsterfucker: is the blood in my veins a fine wine? Sweet sap of the purest maple?
monster: Imma keep it real with you chief you taste like antidepressants and a gas station burrito
using tags as a source of self-expression AND organizational system is so weird because they look like this:
“OH MY GOD PLEASE STEP ON ME asjsiskosisna!!! 👀💦” followed by a calm, “loki”
How come reading tea leaves is seen as this sophisticated, witchy thing but if I slam dunk an open can of Chef Boyardee ravioli onto the pavement in the gas station parking lot to see what kind of soda the old ones think I should buy, foodstuff divination suddenly isn’t cool anymore?
‘Tis the fuckin’ season, friends!! Get out there and live your worst life!!
What the fuck is happening
Why don’t you grab a can of ravioli and ask!






