amarlex:

pondwitch:

amarlex:

amarlex:

wait one more post and this one is the Tinfoil Hat edition

im pretty sure the “queer is a slur!!” stuff started from like terf/truscum garbage and then bled out into fucking everything. 90% of complaints about “queers” are like two steps removed from complaining about transtrenders or whatever anyway, just replace the fake trans girl who transitioned because of autogynephilia with the straight cis man with a beard who calls himself aromantic because he wants to fuck a lot of girls. theyre both fuckin boogeymen but one sounds worse to a wider audience so you can get away with shitting on other lgbt folks for not being as Pure as you or having slightly silly opinions

the stupid fucking debates over this are just bi/trans/nonbinary exclusion shit with a new coat of paint that way more people seem to fall for. its just using an imaginary Cishet Asexual Man as a bludgeon to further fuck with people who were already getting treated like shit

i mean some people have had personal experiences that make them uncomfortable with being called queer but honestly. yeah all of this

where the fuck do people live that “aro fake queers” are a problem worth putting emotional energy into

where the fuck do people live that urban lgbt communities dont use the word queer

is it like. portland or something. wheres this bizzarro realm.

yeah i mean this is barring personal circumstances/bad times with het
people still Actually using it as a slur, of course, but there’s a big
difference between the general decent rule of “make sure it’s cool
before you refer to someone with that term” and “if you use this word
you’re cringey”.

but yeah i dont know. it feels like some kind of
spectral, nebulous enemy that’s composed primarily of dumb twitter
posts, troll MOGAI blogs, and hypotheticals, and now if you use the word
queer near the wrong people online you get tossed in the bin with all
the other Space Invaders