anyway idc your stance on acecourse but stop putting hate//2//breakittoya on my dash theyre nbphobic as hell
their url is bottom//sona now and they literally said “being nb doesn’t impact your reality at all it just provides you with another social group to align yourself with” and claimed that all nb spaces are just echo chambers with bad politics
please reblog this so people know to stop reblogging from a transphobe
honestly the whole time reading these, i’m just sitting here thinking these folks sure have spent a lot of time crafting their weird bigoted theories into something that look academic. like it’s just going in circles and could be simply summarised into “i don’t think nonbinariness is real”.
if you want to ask a bisexual or asexual person about their sexual history to verify that they’re queer, but you don’t want them to take it the wrong way, try this useful communication technique:
give them twenty dollars and go away.
As a bi person, I can attest to the beneficiality of this method.
As an ace i second that^
if twenty dollars doesn’t work for you then forty dollars is also fine
I thought I recognized this art so i looked at op’s blog
idk if y’all remember this homophobic mess of a comic. Granted people can change but op’s more recent stuff reflects the same views.
hi! wow, you have a good memory, this was almost a year ago!
I think you might have misinterpreted the comic. the joke was how she, an ace person, could forget something as obvious and familiar to other people as sexual attraction! I thought her reaction was so funny I suggested making a daily comic about it.
Lyd is my girlfriend! We’re in love! Passionate lesbian love. For four years now! Since that comic we moved in together and we’ve started building savings for our life together! We talk online (Twitter, we don’t really use tumblr) about struggles we face, homophobia, lesbian history and representation, and the intersection of being gay with being ace, not ace, gender conforming, and gender non-conforming. That comic you’re saying is homophobic might look like it to someone without the context of our life, and maybe it did cause a sapphic woman to feel alienated due to her sexual attraction. I understand that because I’ve felt that way many times from the words of both lgbt and non-lgbt people alike. But it was an accident, and while that can’t take away the damage, I promise that Lyd’s comics showing our happy life together, our posts online, even our youtube channel all do infinitely more good for fellow sapphic women and other lgbt people than this comic did bad. Lyd apologized for the misunderstandings and lack of clarity.
Please stop holding other lgbt people to an impossibly high standard. We have so many enemies in this world, the last thing we need is to be attacking each other for the smallest infractions.
@young aro/ace people: the excusionists you see online are not at pride. if they are, they’re coward keyboard warriors and they will not approach you at pride. everyone is welcome at pride, don’t let some asshole on the internet tell you otherwise
that’s bc exclus aren’t violent (unlike the terfs ppl love to compare us to) and taking the risk to directly confront and anger cishets, our damn oppressors? yeah some of us are scared of doing that for obvious reasons
You don’t have to understand asexuality or aromanticism (or bisexuality, pansexuality, being trans, noninary etc.) Just acknowledge it, respect it, and move on. These are real live human people we’re talking about here, just be nice.
words are fake and not real but i’ll trust a whore over a FSSWer and a crip over a PWD and a queer over an LGBT person any day. something about the simplicity of “fuck you that’s us and it’s great” warms the heart
If your primary focus in discussions of Pride month is who is not allowed to take part in it, you are entirely missing the point.
asserting that people are “trying” to reclaim queer, as if it might not stick, is disgustingly misleading. it’s been 25+ years. you can stop talking about it as if it’s “trendy”, or as if we just started yesterday. it’s our word.
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