femme is an actual identity you can’t use it to caption every picture of a feminine afab person! if u dont know the gender of the person in the picture u also dont know if they id as femme! it does not mean every gender conforming cis woman or every even slightly feminine nonbinary person! and i see you doing this by default to anyone u read as afab!

dingonato:

Spock: Father, I learned a new human way of greeting each other. It’s this: πŸ–•

Sarek: …

Sarek: Spock, that is not a properβ€”

Spock: πŸ–•

Sarek: I’m the Vulcan ambassador to earth I know what that means and that isn’t what you think it meansβ€”

Spock: πŸ–•πŸ–•

kirkvvall:

i think my fav thing about griffin as a dm is that instead of goingΒ β€œunfortunately the ooze is immune to slashing damage :/” he saysΒ β€œif you were making a pb&j sandwich and you dropped some jelly on the counter, would you take a knife and just start cutting at it you dumb son of a bitch”

johniaurens:

johniaurens:

this may be a controversial opinion to have in the empathy discourse but i think for anyone who experiences empathy it would be useful to consciously learn to tell when ur feeling compassion vs empathy just like for being a better person reasons

and i think especially it’d be good to know how to identify when ur using empathy for reasons like manipulation. and i don’t mean necessarily in a like, Bad Manipulation way just like, when ur using empathy to influence other people

like i’m good at doing stuff like. writing #recommendations for my friends like, wording what i say abt people in ways that other people will find appealing? that’s manipulation

anyway idk food for thought ig