hey just a psa that when girls call me honey my heart actually transcends time and space bc iβm just that gay
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iβm going to start making shitty formulaic tumblr posts. someone respond to this incredulously so i can threaten them.Β
what the fuck
i am going to turn you inside outΒ
op do you take constructive criticism
the only thing i take is livesΒ
Im shaking what does this mean
just call me energizer boobie cause Iβve got double As
If you donβt have the time and money for both a girlfriend and a dog, then I, a terrifying werewolf, am an excellent bargain
anime roboticist: alright hereβs your massive robot suit. you have to be in its core, and it mimics your movements 1:1 while youβre in it. also any damage the robot takes you also take in the same place
robot pilot: wouldnβt it make sense for me to control it remotely miles away
anime roboticist: yeah but. cmon
hello iβm a depressed and tired coffee-addicted bisexual and youβre watching Disney channel *smashes table*
remember the discourse that aces were culturally appropriating from tumblr mental illness groups by using an #actuallyX tag bc like….. that was so symptomatic of us white people having no concept of Culture and substituting it with any other kind of shared identity label
βbut this didnt used to trigger youβ or evenΒ βthis didnt used to trigger me why am i upset about it now, i must be fakingβΒ
- memory shifts. you build barriers to protect yourself and depending on the frequency of your exposure to something, those barriers can break down or change
- understanding something better can make it feel worse sometimes. look, when you were younger you probably couldnt understand that something was hurting you. now that you know it was bad??? yeah its gonna trigger you worse than it used to because you KNOW now.
- recovering from some things can unlock deeper struggles. so you dealt with the issues that were on the surface? well your brain is going to let you access the next level of problems that need to be dealt with now.
- life has different phases that expose you to different triggers. stuff that triggers a teen with school responsibilities is going to be different than the stuff that triggers a new parent with a new baby or an adult with a social job or a blogger with constant exposure to daily news.
- triggers can be shaped by the trauma of people you know. you can gain new triggers from knowing something related to that happened to someone you care about. once you know how awful a thing can be, even if it wasnt awful for you personally, you can still be sensitive to it.
and most importantly
- YOU DONT NEED A REASON FOR SOMETHING TO BE A TRIGGER. yes, there IS a reason, but itβs not your responsibility to immediately understand why your brain does what it does. forcing yourself to analyze too soon is skipping the stage where you learn to cope with it first. learn to cope, then analyze. knowing why is difficult if you cant handle the emotions that come with knowing
- UNDERSTANDING COMES WITH TIME AND INTROSPECTION. you should not force yourself to explain your triggers, especially without the guidance of a therapist or trusted, stable confidant.
bpd more like Biggest Mood
tbh sometimes I wonder exactly how much Welcome to Night Vale had an influence on our sort of weird casual surrealist humor (cryptids, cursed images, βself care is drinking six redbulls behind a 7-Eleven and fist fighting godβ, dark kmart, etc.)
