alex from tom and alex is on a morning slot again on triple j and i was talking to the partner about them and they were likeΒ β€œdid you have a crush on him?” and i repliedΒ β€œno he’s the straight one” because i hadn’t thought of these boys much since 2012 before realising β€œoh wait. i’m a girl now. i can crush on straight dudes if i want”

swampbitch666:

friendly reminder that you don’t have to justify self-care with suffering. you don’t have to be feeling down to give yourself permission to spend the night home alone with that book you’ve been dying to read. you don’t have to earn that piece of chocolate with a hard day at work. you don’t have to run yourself ragged before you deserve a bubble bath. you don’t need to wait for a disaster to be nice to yourself.