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i have a drs appointment with a specialist who’s been amazingly unhelpful before and refused to write me an actual diagnosis bc i could use it to get on disability pension which could ‘discourage me from getting better’, and now i get to rely on this guy to do that again and to support me moving out and into supported accommodation, and i know from past experience that if this goes badly again im probs going to feel suicidal for the next few weeks, so, fingers crossed im not sick and suicidal forever

oleathe:

slavz:

i mean i support straights marrying i just don’t think it should be called “marriage”. we all know a real marriage can’t have a man and a woman

Adam and Eve caused the downfall of mankind it would be a sin to replicate that type of couple in any capacity

DBT Steps for Increasing Positive Emotions

oaluz:

BUILD POSITIVE EXPERIENCES
Short Term:

  • Do pleasant things that are possible now.
  • Increase pleasant events that prompt positive emotions
  • Do ONE THING each day from the Adult Pleasant Events Schedule – see Emotion Regulation Handout 8

Long Term:

  • Make changes in your life so that positive events will occur more often.
  • Build a “life worth living.”
  • Work towards goals: ACCUMULATE POSITIVES
  • Make a list of positive events you want
  • List small steps towards goals
  • Take the first step.

ATTEND TO RELATIONSHIPS
Repair old relationships
Reach out for new relationships
Work on current relationships

AVOID AVOIDING
Avoid giving up

BE MINDFUL OF POSITIVE EXPERIENCES
FOCUS your attention on positive events that happen
REFOCUS when your mind wanders to the negative
Be UNMINDFUL of worries

DISTRACT from:
Thinking about when the positive experience WILL END
Thinking about whether you DESERVE this positive experience
Thinking about how much more might be EXPECTED of you now

More in-depth here: Paying Attention to Positives