I guarantee you, anyone with “x critical” wording in their blog description is either a radfem or unwittingly drinking radfem koolaid
not to be that dude but what about kink critical or people who are critical of the media they consume (like su critical). i dont think they’re drinkin the koolaid, i think its just unfortunate that radfems ruined ___ critical. (which im confused anyway because I’ve literally only seen radfems use gender critical)
Swerfs often consider themselves kink critical so that’s been ruined for me, too. That might not be the case for other people but it is for a fair amount of people.
kink-critical is 12,000% radfem koolaid and that’s just the facts.
Like I hate speaking about this publicly in any capacity for a lot of reasons but this is like the 4th example of this misunderstanding I’ve seen this week and it needs to be addressed because I feel like people are starting to lose the thread of radical feminism and its pervasive toxicity by boiling the entire ideology down to only the TERF [and occasionally SWERF] archetypes so I guess I gotta bring this discussion down on my own damn head.
So here’s the deal: the foundational tenets of radical feminism result in many wide-reaching beliefs About The World, and men, and women, and people of other genders, and the way they interact–and they have a great deal of interest in classifying those systems of interaction in ways that reinforce the foundational tenets. One of those beliefs is that men are abusers and women victims, unilaterally. They believe also that women are brainwashed by patriarchy to accept, normalize, or overlook violence done against them by men. This is tied in directly with beliefs about BDSM being a system which allows men to abuse women, and which encourages women to believe they want it when in fact they are being conditioned to accept violence. If you’re seeing some kernels of swerf n’ terf ideology in that portrayal, good–you’re getting the point. BDSM [or a straw man of it, anyway] is usually the big bad in this system of beliefs, but the formation of the argument allows it to reach well into other kinks and sexual practices, reclassifying them into some form that denies the agency of everyone involved, paints at least one party as an abuser exploiting a power system, and positions radical feminists as the noble crusaders defending Good Misled Women from Bad Exploitative Men–tying the whole thing back into the core ideas they have about the shape of the world, and also tying them into their other beliefs–what kind of people are men, for example, or what kind of behaviours women are A. not allowed to do and B. are too ignorant to realise they shouldn’t be doing [in their belief system].
Because that’s the thing about radical feminism at the end of the day. All of the beliefs are interconnected and products of the same twisted logic, usually reinforced with just enough grains of truth or plausibility to make them appealing–and to make them likely to be picked up, embraced, and circulated by people who may not recognize their origins. This is deliberate. Recruitment is a major game for radfems, and rather than hit a potentially open-minded, reasonable person over the head with “trans women are men” right out of the gate, they seed these other, tangential beliefs first. They package them in conspicuously TERF-free wrapping. They sprinkle them into communities where they’ll be taken at that face value. They market them to vulnerable people looking for a way to explain, understand, and heal from bad things that have happened to them. And then, when you’ve swallowed that key piece of their logic, they bring you into the fold by giving you more and more of the big picture, each step leading naturally and by design from the one you’ve already accepted.
And I know this, because that’s how they got me. They found a young, scared, confused, hurt person–someone who had had their interest in kink used by unscrupulous people to rape and abuse them, and someone who had been alienated from mainstream feminism due to complicated trauma reactions around those same events. It wasn’t my fault, they assured me. Of course Other Feminists weren’t equipped to understand me. They could help me heal. They could help me understand. They knew what I’d been through and they had the answers. They got me hook line and fucking sinker by using their kink-critical ideologies to exploit my trauma and vulnerability and position themselves as the answer to my pain. And then they fed me more, and more, and more beliefs that all seemed like such a natural extension of that first one, the one I was the most receptive to. It took me years to figure out what had happened and disentangle myself, and I’m still deprogramming a lot of it.
So, yeah. Kink-critical is radfem ideology down to the bones. And because I know it’s gonna come up–you’re allowed to not like kink in general. You’re allowed to be squicked or triggered by specific kinks, or even the whole affair. Complicated or even outright negative reactions to those things are well within the range of normal. But “kink-critical” as a whole, and as an unexamined belief including refusing to question where it came from, who it benefits, and what it leads to, is pure radfem bullshit.Â
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antis: the “lawful evil” alignment of (tumblr) fandom life
- how is this true?
it’s pretty simple. “lawful evil” is categorized by adhering to laws in place and moral codes but only ones that benefit themselves
“A lawful evil villain methodically takes what he wants within the limits of his code of conduct without regard for whom it hurts. He cares about tradition, loyalty, and order but not about freedom, dignity, or life. He plays by the rules but without mercy or compassion. He is comfortable in a hierarchy and would like to rule, but is willing to serve. He condemns others not according to their actions but according to race, religion, homeland, or social rank. He is loath to break laws or promises.
This reluctance comes partly from his nature and partly because he depends on order to protect himself from those who oppose him on moral grounds. Some lawful evil villains have particular taboos, such as not killing in cold blood (but having underlings do it) or not letting children come to harm (if it can be helped). They imagine that these compunctions put them above unprincipled villains.
Some lawful evil people and creatures commit themselves to evil with a zeal like that of a crusader committed to good. Beyond being willing to hurt others for their own ends, they take pleasure in spreading evil as an end unto itself. They may also see doing evil as part of a duty to an evil deity or master.
Lawful evil creatures consider their alignment to be the best because it combines honor with a dedicated self-interest.
Lawful evil is the most dangerous alignment because it represents methodical, intentional, and frequently successful evil.”
let’s examine this all for a hot second……….
“…takes what [they want] within the limits of [their] code of conduct without regard for whom it hurts…”
thats pretty self explanatory! the people ive seen openly wishing death on people and suicidebaiting are antis. if you see someone telling a she*ith or otay*uri shipper, or has written anything they dont like to delete their blog or to “go die” you are seeing who we call an “anti”
anti = anti fandom/anti shipping. no it doesnt mean “anti pe*dophile” as much as they insist it is for all of their screeching about banning underage fic or art. being a p*dophile translates into having sexual attraction to actual children and going so far as to groom children/minor for a future sexual encounter. p*dophiles can exist in and out of fandom. they don’t need fandom to target a child/minor but they could use it! that’s true! antis are giving them a real good home to hide in plain sight while fingers are pointed in every other direction but theirs. it’s the “boy who cried wolf” except it’s real and there’s real consequences for the wolf getting what it wants, but i rarely see antis thinking critically
they want a rigid totalitarian structure in how fandom should function and create based on mainly personal opinions. it doesn’t include safety measures like tagging and blacklisting or age restricted fanfic sites or blogs but rather total erasure of any content they dislike. it stifles fandom creativity/increases mob mentality/hurts not only people who cope with fandom but also the survivors who want no part of the discourse. they want to read and write fanfic to help not focus on their trauma. some survivors use anti rhetoric as cathartic and to further their personal agenda by accusing people who are not their abusers as their abusers which frankly doesn’t help them or help who is being falsely accusedÂ
“…cares about tradition, loyalty, and order but not about freedom, dignity, or life…”
“…plays by the rules but without mercy or compassion…”
here’a fun snippet:
“ …loath to break laws or promises. This reluctance comes partly from [their] nature and partly because [they depend] on order to protect [themselves] from those who oppose [them] on moral grounds
”
raise your hand if you have seen antis threaten to report someone for a fanfic or fanart. they think they’re so morally right that they need to act on it by going up the order scale to someone higher than them (like staff)
“Some lawful evil villains have particular taboos, such as not killing in cold blood [just encouraging people to take their own lives] or not letting children come to harm (if it can be helped). They imagine that these compunctions put them above unprincipled villains.”
i especially love “not letting children come to harm (if it can be helped)” because for all of their screams of “PROTECT MINORS!!!! WE ARE PROTECTING KIDS!!!” if its a minor shipping something they don’t like that minor is now an Enemy and can also be harassed and bullied and to die
“Some lawful evil people and creatures commit themselves to evil with a zeal like that of a crusader committed to good.”
how many times have i seen things by antis be called Pure and Good….Â
“Beyond being willing to hurt others for their own ends, they take pleasure in spreading evil as an end unto itself.”
it’s called performative morality and it’s addicting
Lawful evil [considers] their alignment to be the best because it combines honor with a dedicated self-interest. [It is] the most dangerous alignment because it represents methodical, intentional, and frequently successful evil.”
which is what is happening to fandom as we speak
the fact of the matter is…………… if you aren’t an anti, it doesn’t mean you like kink/underage/mpreg/whatever and that you are a predator. or that you want predators to thrive in fandom. at least that’s what i hope for out of every person who participates in fandom.
what it does mean is you are pro fandom/fandom safe behavior and know how to use functions like blacklist/block to help everyone and are probably a decent human being who knows better than to tell someone you don’t know personally or what they do with their time to kill themselves
hi this is the most embarrassing post ive ever read idk what’s worse categorising human beings into a fucking dnd alignment or acting like there’s actually people out trying to abuse you because of your ships
remember when someone said “mogai hair”, and somehow didn’t second read themselves as literally parroting the kind of bs that’s like… used against all non-cis or non-straight people..
like you all are legit terrifying in how regressive you are. this is really irresponsible rhetorics that’s being enabled and allowed to slide.
the moment you’re going after non-conformity, and the moment you’re negatively speaking of that with non-cis-straight people, is the moment you become a dangerous person.
mocking non-conformity is harmful and makes you an unsafe person to be around. the fact you all think to go for diversity and variety as something mockable and to attack, is also pretty distressing and scary.
this isn’t the kinda shit we should tolerate, no matter what you call the umbrella of being non-cis-straight. this isn’t the kind of community we should have..
a community where we’re going to mock appearances and non-conformity, isn’t a community i want to be part of.
is “mogai hair” just that woman w red hair that’s in every fucking alt right meme and shitty youtube thumbnail
transmed voice: I have never once considered psychology as a discipline to be anything but completely Objective. If something is listed as a mental illness, then it is! I’ve never heard of the word “pathologisation” in my life and I don’t have enough historical knowledge to understand how science and academia can be tools against marginalised people. I’ve never heard about how women masturbating and black people wanting to escape slavery have also been classified as mental illnesses, or i’m naive enough to think that the systems that once enabled this have changed or dissapeared.
i also just hate trans people who scrape enough self-esteem together to not hate their body, and will fight against trans positivity at every turn 🙂 This is what I Objectively think as a Fellow Trans, and i’m going to avoid thinking about how every thing i say benefits TERFs and other people who will send me to conversion camp the second they get the chance 🙂
i’m also a conservative or libertarian leaning trans guy under the age of 21
sorry if me Stating the Facts offends you sweaty :’)
Masculinity is not the problem, the class domination of women by men is.
Butch lesbians and gnc women who you read as masculine are not the problem, men are.Â
This is all incredibly obvious and a classic feminist insight, and the fact that we have strayed so far form this framework is shocking and terrifying.
tpol:
harry kim as a millennial icon, discuss
never gets promoted because he’s “too inexperienced.” for 7 years.
works hard, very gay, essential to operations but everyone gives him shit anyway
Actually dies on the job, still returns to work the next morning.
i talk a lot of shit for someone who can’t choose rude dialogue options in games because i’m scared of hurting a characters feelings
*a pair of black socks on Ebay*
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cats? Elf dogs.
