clitcheese:

there is no middle ground that i can see. if just believing people about their own sexualities and identities is problematic to you, then you are supporting medical gatekeeping, you are agreeing with the straight and cis people who deny each of our identities regularly. if you don’t support medical gatekeeping, then believing people’s self-reported identities is your only option.

you can not pick which identities are real and which should be subject to medical scrutiny and examination. you do not have that right. you either believe us or abuse us.

Me: cis straight people make me feel uncomfortable, tbh.
An exclusionist, crawling onto my porch: yes, my fellow LGBTPN, i too hate the cishets! that is why we must defen–
Me, swinging a broom wildly in their direction: SHOO! OUT! AWAY!!

i’m seeing posts saying that umbrella terms like queer and mogai are bad because they harm trans women, in ways such as it’s lumping us in with our oppressors, and assuming shared identity where there is none.

which is cool and all but each one of these posts champion LGBT as the less problematic alternative, completely unironically. even going so far as bringing up the myth that we’re β€œan historic coalition of SGA and trans people”, which i’m not going to get into what a rewrite of history that is today

it’s like the cis lgbp folk finally got around to listening to all the reasons we don’t like LGBT, only to recycle our words to justify ripping queer out of our mouths.

featherinmycapandcheese:

cattgirl:

Saying β€œGender is fake so how are people trans?” is like saying β€œMoney is fake so how are people poor?” Like as much as we facetiously say gender is fake, β€œsocial construct” is not synonymous with β€œfake”

98% of gender is controlled by the top 1%
They have more gender than anyone

terphobic:

some TERF: trans β€œ"menβ€β€œ have been poisoned by the patriarchy! They just need to accept that their lesbianism is okay and they can be butch without having to –

me, rolling past on skates wearing sunglasses and sipping starbucks: i like men, sharon