freckledfem:

clitemoji:

rad-dummy:

tygerofaera:

freckledfem:

also @ other radfems

what are your thoughts on trans people using the bathroom they pass in? personally i would be okay with a passing tw in the womens room because if they look to be female (size, bone structure, mannerisms, etc) it seems like there is a way smaller chance that they have weird intentions and a way higher chance that they just want to pee without being harassed themselves in the mens room. i start being uncomfortable when people that are clearly “male” or “manly” want to come in the womens room when their presence is obviously intimidating. same with a passing trans man, if they look super manly and i thought they were male i would be uncomfortable seeing them in the ladies room.

thoughts?

EFF u on not touching because trans women aside this is EFFing horrible and a great big ole elitist slam against GNC women that don’t have passing privilege!

Wow you’re garbage.

How does someone say they want to abolish gender yet they straight up say they feel uncomfortable going to the bathroom with someone that doesn’t look like the same gender as them according to society???

tag yourself i’m “female bone structure” because fuck anyone who dares to transition as an adult

i’m “trans activists not giving a fuck about female safety”

i’m ‘deciding how dangerous a trans woman is by her size, bone structure and mannerisms’ you disgusting fuck? do u think my bone structure makes me dangerous? am i more dangerous if i don’t shave my legs, what about my looks is possibly making me more or less dangerous?

sorry butch women but the ladies room says ‘you must be this conventionally feminine to enter’ :/

4lung:

I am beyond fucking annoyed that narcissa wright was finally trolled into deleting her twitch account. she was doing so well swimming upstream in a transphobic Boy’s Club subcommunity for so long, and now that girl has no income. one of the most skilled speedrunners on the planet comes out as trans and is chased out of a job, but I can guarantee you that if any bigname cis male streamer was outed as a sex offender tomorrow, thousands would rush to their defense. why is being trans grounds for backlash and punishment and losing everything in almost any scenario? people being antagonistic online just for the sake of hurting another person is something I’ve come to expect and accept as a universal and unchangeable constant but what I’ll never understand is……why?

rad-dummy:

tygerofaera:

freckledfem:

also @ other radfems

what are your thoughts on trans people using the bathroom they pass in? personally i would be okay with a passing tw in the womens room because if they look to be female (size, bone structure, mannerisms, etc) it seems like there is a way smaller chance that they have weird intentions and a way higher chance that they just want to pee without being harassed themselves in the mens room. i start being uncomfortable when people that are clearly “male” or “manly” want to come in the womens room when their presence is obviously intimidating. same with a passing trans man, if they look super manly and i thought they were male i would be uncomfortable seeing them in the ladies room.

thoughts?

EFF u on not touching because trans women aside this is EFFing horrible and a great big ole elitist slam against GNC women that don’t have passing privilege!

Wow you’re garbage.

How does someone say they want to abolish gender yet they straight up say they feel uncomfortable going to the bathroom with someone that doesn’t look like the same gender as them according to society???

tag yourself i’m “female bone structure” because fuck anyone who dares to transition as an adult

if ‘female socialisation’ is a horrible, harmful thing for cis women and trans women, wouldn’t ‘male socialisation’ also be harmful for cis men and especially trans women? surely​ being indoctrinated into gender roles under the patriarchy is bad, even if those gender roles are telling you that you’re (expected to be) good and strong and powerful? because this socialisation is still hurting even cis men, they have problems dealing with emotions and anger issues into adulthood because it was never taught to them as kids.

like i honestly don’t get if TERFs are pro-socialisation or against. They make it very clear that ‘female socialisation’ is a harmful patriarchal system that harms ‘females’ from birth (including of course the trans men they’re​ misgendering). it’s described very clearly as trauma.

but trans women need to be demonised for undergoing the exact same thing? told we’re as bad as cis men when we’re​ actively trying to unlearn it? told we benefit from it, as if we’ve been built to be good little patriarchal servants, as if we haven’t had psychological scars from the process. u can’t imagine this socialisation is a good thing for us. u can’t imagine any trans girl wanted it.

so maybe…. stop attacking trans women as if we benefit from our childhoods. and if u really hate ‘female socialisation’, u should probably stand with trans people calling for gender neutral parenting, honestly.

Trans continue to do the absolute most! Biological women are expected to cape for you but where are y’all on cis women’s issues? Y’all so fucking annoying.

euryale-dreams:

euryale-dreams:

Excuse me? I don’t know what planet you live on but it’s been my experience that trans women are overwhelmingly supportive of abortion rights. Maybe the reason why you don’t see droves of trans women at your pro-choice rallies is because we’re a tiny, marginalized minority among women so maybe there just aren’t a lot of trans women to turn out in the first place.

Oh yeah… and the fact that for the last several decades people like you have been doing your damnedest to make mainstream feminist spaces–like your aforementioned pro-choice rallies–as hostile as possible towards trans women.

Talk about a goddamn catch-22, eh?

Oh yeah… and while I’m at it I should point out that aside from lack of abortion access–turns out we cant conceive boy howdy what a privilege!–every single feminist issue I can possibly think of from rape to domestic violence to sex trafficking hits trans women hard.

Wonder why trans women aren’t front-and-center at your local women’s shelter? Maybe it’s because we’re too busy scrambling to put together resources of our own that you would have taken for granted sixty years ago because someone went and decided to make the resources you seem to be asking us to help you run inaccessible to us when we need them.

Anyway, get fucked.

I’m a bit pissed right now so I’m just going to leave this here.

daisydeadhead:

opaloradical:

thehunterofartemis:

If you’re really pro-choice, and say you support a woman’s right to choose, you better fucking support a trans woman’s right to have hrt and get srs if she so desires.

(I know I’m going to get hate for this.)

nah

a man wanting to a get boob implants for cosmetic reasons and to fulfill his autogynephilic kink is in no way in the same level or comparable to a traumatized rape victim wanting to get rid of the pregnancy that resulted from the sexual abuse she experienced, pro-choice activism is in no way related and should never go hand-in-hand with transgenderism rhetoric

0/10 this is a terrible post and you should feel ashamed

You do know that *I* am not allowed to have hormones, as a post-menopausal cis woman with a family history of breast cancer?  You do know the majority of post-menopausal women who now request hormones do not get them, due to fear of liability and lawsuits, etc?  

The official number of post-menopausal women (in the USA) on hormones is 1 in 5, and that is why.  Even if we sign papers agreeing to the liability and taking responsibility… well, they don’t offer us any.  The door is closed; they are simply not going there and possibly getting sued for malpractice.  

Therefore, pay attention, you are actually getting treated far better than we are.  The medical establishment assumes you are intelligent enough to choose what you want and grown up enough take responsibility, but fully 80% post-menopausal women are not given these choices.

I support the rights of 1 out of 5 trans women getting hormones, the same as for post-menopausal cis women.  Exactly the same.  If any woman in your family has had breast cancer, instant disqualification.  Tough shit.  

Now, that’s equality.  As it is, trans women are of course treated FAR BETTER than cis women and after their initial diagnosis, have oceans of hormones at their disposal (at megadoses I have been told would be harmful for cis women) regardless of their family histories.  So cut the bullshit, please.  

1 in 5 is the number for us, so that should be the number for you…  agreed?  

If not, why do you think you deserve to be treated better than cis women?

hm don’t u think it’s just a bit, unnatural? doesn’t it make a mokery of the women who can produce their own estrogen? doesn’t taking these manufactured chemicals and pumping them into your body make you simply a product of the modern medical industry? isn’t artificial female hormones just a defiance of natural order? aren’t hormones just optional and cosmetic and unnecessary? just saying, i thought terfs were against all this hormone stuff. but im learning more everyday!

but in all seriousness. estrogen treatment at an old age comes with significant risk to trans & cis women. trans women who medically transition over 40 are very often denied hormones if there is any history of heart disease or blood clotting disorders in the family, although antiandrogens are a different matter because they have no risk and in fact reduce the risk of many cancers. and all trans women are on progressively lower dosages as we age because estrogen treatment is a cancer risk in all women, and medical guidelines state that over around 40, estrogen supplements should be kept as little as possible. often trans women have to halt hormones completely around the age breast cancer becomes a risk factor if there’s a family history. the ‘megadoses’ you’re talking about would be dangerous only to women who are already producing estrogen, as normal estrogen levels don’t to be doubled. in fact they’re only ‘megadoses’ compared to the microdoses found in contraceptives, because they have completely different functions. if a trans woman is taking more estrogen than is in the normal range of cis women for their age, that’s generally self-medication and is harmful if left unchecked. and at every age depending on the dosage we need bloodtests every 3 to 6 months to check our liver, kidneys and to check for clots.

and the whole ‘trans women have it better’ shit that you’re pushing ignores that trans women outside the US (Nowhere else has a planned parenthood) need to go to specialists for these drugs, which have a minimum year long waiting lists, often 2 years or more, just to get into preliminary psychological testing. they often require over 10 very expensive sessions of very intrusive evaluation. the country of New Zealand had one such specialist who recently retired, and now the entire damn country is unequipped to handle trans women. this isn’t like us just being able to go to the gynecologist.

it’s really not that hard to google what attaining hormone treatment is like for trans women there’s just no need to be this wrong next time

TERF or Conservative Male?

frecklesurprise:

clitemoji:

frecklesurprise:

i-hate-all-pedophiles:

terffighter:

radfemsideblog:

terfsafeuserboxes:

laughably-evil:

terfsafeuserboxes:

whatkindofbigotisthis:

terf-or-convervative:

terf-or-convervative:

Seeing transphobic comments might leave ppl wonder who it came from, A far-wight conservative? Or perhaps a “radical” feminist?

Perhaps you’ll never tell the difference, or maybe you can see past that rhetoric and know which group it’s coming from..

Find out if you know the difference

Anyway I finally made the quiz. The was actually a p low character count of the quiz, so I had to cut a lot of the quotes down with “…” but I tried to keep the general gist of the quotes tho.

Take this quiz from a kindred spirit blog, lol
transmisogyny cw obviously

This is actually hard as fuck and puts a light to terfs’ beliefs ~🐱

I spend a good amount of time arguing with terfs and I only got 3/10

I got 5 out of 10, it seems most ppl get around 3-5 right ~🐱

4 out of 10

I got 2/10. I’ve read through numerous terf posts on tumblr and spent hours arguing with conservative men on Facebook comment threads and I got 2/10
Just take a second to think about that

-Mod Ash

I got a 50% and I was in the higher percentile

wow guys really

spoilers: that one’s a TERF answer. i was surprised too, I thought it was a quote from the actual Pope. from either his ‘transgenders are the Annihilation of Man’ speech or the ‘they’re worse than nuclear weapons because they defy natural order’ speech. a bit unfair tbh

you idiot im making fun of you

no terf thinks that

thanks​ dude i really am going to take this to heart, just thank u for opening my eyes

so you totally failed didn’t you?