Want to stop trans murders?
Stop shaming men who like us, stop calling them gay when theyโre not, stop watching dudes play us on screen.
Yes, itโs actually a deeply complicated and nearly intractable set of issues at the dangerous intersection of race, class, homophobia, misogyny, and economics, but the thing that most people can DO, right now, no matter who or where they are, is really that simple: stop shaming the men who like us, stop letting us be portrayed by men.
After years of thinking on this issue, listening to survivors of assault, reading the reports, talking to countless trans women/sex workers, thatโs the heart of this. Straight men kill trans women partners because other people, and culture as a whole, says itโs gay, less masculine, to be with us.
So shut it down. Shut down every person or conversation that claims trans women are โreallyโ men, every media depiction with men playing us.
If y’all have other ideas, Iโd love to hear them. Iโve seen endless โstop trans murdersโ posts but no suggestions as to how, or any accountability.
