trans girl / physically disabled / ace inclusionist uwu / tag discussion of trans deaths and disabled deaths and alcohol thanks
Author: peasantchick
[a tweet by @KevinFarzad reads βMe trying to ask someone for a favor: Hey could you help me with this thing? Absolutely no pressure though. Totally ok if you canβt. If youβd rather run me over with a car thatβs cool. Are you mad at me?“]
[image is of a hand holding three pink crystal eggs of different sizes, and a pink crystal rod. text reads βThe Best Jade Eggs For Summoning A Sex Demonβ, article by Toria Sheffield.]
βIf youβre a fascist and anti-fascists come for you, you have a choice. You can give it up. You can go renounce what you said. You could just go on with the rest of your life and stop turning up at fascist rallies. Anti-fascists probably arenβt gonna buy you a pint and be your best friend, but theyβll move on. But if youβre a person of color, if youβre trans, or a person with a disability, or gay, or Jewish, and fascists come for you, there is nothing you can do that can make them happy, except stop existing. Thatβs the key difference between the far left and the far right. Anti-fascists organize themselves against those that are building fascism. If youβre doing that, that is something you can non-violently stop doing. If youβre a political enemy of antifa, you can become a friend. If youβre a political enemy of fascism, though, either they lose or you die.β
1. yes, there is such thing as βtoo explicit for a pride paradeβ andΒ
2. there should absolutely be non-sexual pride events and spaces for people who donβt want to see sexual stuff and/or naked bodies for any reason but
3. donβt let your opinions about what is or isnβt too explicit cross over intoΒ βwhat about the children we canβt expose children to evil degenerate sexβ because that, my friend, is dangerous territory
This got more notes than I expected so Iβd like to reiterate that I emphatically support the sexuality of Pride and that Pride has always been in part a celebration of queer sexuality. Removing the celebration of queer sex and sexuality from Pride is exactly what homophobes want.Β
That doesnβt mean that there shouldnβt be sex-free nudity-free whatever-free spaces, just that for every space thatβs designed for people who donβt want to see it there should be a space for people who do, a demographic that does and should include teens.Β βWhat about the childrenβ is homophobic rhetoric, even if youβre using the word βminorsβ as your buzzword substitution.Β
Not to mention that removing the sexuality from pride, yes including the kink people (who keep it much classier than any het anyway), is straight-up dangerous for anyone who doesnβt have other access to models of healthy queer sexuality and might end up using porn or fetishy depictions of sexuality as their model instead (because god knows a lot of people work very hard to hide and age-restrict any depiction of healthy queer relationships and sexuality)Β
Are there boundaries that should exist? Definitely. Stuff likeΒ βno sexual harassmentβ comes to mind. Should safe spaces for people who Donβt Want To See It exist? Of course. Should those boundaries and safe spaces entail removing the sexuality from Pride andΒ βwhat about the children minorsβ scaremongering? Hell fucking no.
Iβm not going to tell you what to think. You have every right to form your own opinion on this issue. I do want to say that this is the person who youβre reblogging this post from and if that bothers you you can choose to not reblog it.Β
Oh, and if you want sex-free orΒ βI donβt consent to see your naked bodyβ spaces to exist? Advocate for them! Get in touch with your local Pride organization! Take your tumblr post and copy-paste it into an email if you have to but translate that passion into real world action and you can make a big difference in the world