kaylapocalypse:

candidlyautistic:

tariqah:

Feudalism in the past and capitalism now have tinged our outlooks in life and are parts of literally each and every part of society, from social interactions to academia. The fact that we cannot imagine a “human nature” without cruelty and greed is because those that have power have fed us lies that we or someone else would have replicated their cruelty. :/ Don’t fall for the lie.

For historical reference if you want the sociology 101 version of this… Capitalism was more or less constructed to maintain the power base of feudalism. It was the means by which dissent and rebellion was quelled by ceding the perception of power and control to the lower class. Capitalism is just feudalism with the promise that if you “work hard” you can become the ruling elite. When you look it whether or not that actually happens, though? Crossing class lines rarely happens. Statistically, it is never going to happen to you.

Capitalism, like feudalism, requires the presence of a social construct to create the class divide. In feudalism, it was blood line (nobility). In capitalism, it is wealth. It serves the same purpose. The overwhelming majority of wealth in a capitalist society passes along blood lines – it has to in order to maintain stagnation of class mobility.

This deliberate social construct, this class divide, this enforcement of inequity that literally kills people can be solved. It isn’t a wealth problem. It isn’t a resource problem. It is a how do we convince the nobility upper class to give up their wealth problem.

But instead we say these problems are human nature and can never be fixed. Thieves will always steal. Murderers will always kill. Dictators will always rule. But the number of actual pathological thieves, murderers, or dictators is really low. Most of these things that happen are out of perceived need. Most thieves don’t steal because they want to take something, they steal because they perceive that they need to – because they need to eat, or because it is seen as the easiest path to vertical movement in the class structure.

When we say that it is human nature to steal so we will always have this problem, it is a refusal to examine the systemic structure that created the problem in the first place. That is how an institution enacts violence. It creates a system where violence is required for survival, and then discourages examining the reason.

So what does this violence look like in practice? What is a concrete example of this systemic violence?

This is a long answer that has been studied, written about, and summarized by black scholars whose knowledge on the topic far exceeds mine. For one of those summaries read this link, which take you through the deliberate social construction of race in the mid 1600s in Virginia and the subsequent and equally deliberate social construction of whiteness as a means to marginalize others – both a violent act of capitalism that affects us today.

When OP says we are fed lies, this is what it looks like in practice.

https://www.jacobinmag.com/2015/06/racecraft-racism-social-origins-reparations/

to read later

respecting freedom of speech above the right of minorities to live is a farce. anyone calling for genocide or the cleansing of “degenerates” only cares about their own self proclaimed right to piss on the rest of us.

timetravelrabbit:

When I say, “My anxiety is acting up,” I’m really saying, “There’s no reason to be afraid. It’s just my disorder talking, and I can do something to calm down.” It’s positive.

When I say, “My depression is bad today,” I’m really saying, “I’m not worthless and I don’t deserve to die or give up. It’s just my disorder talking, and I should get up and look for what’s good about today.” It’s positive.

When I say, “My ADHD means my brain is wired differently,” I’m really saying, “I’m not a stupid piece of shit who will amount to nothing. It’s just that my brain needs help making certain connections and chemicals, and with certain processes, and there are lots of things I can try to work with it instead of against it.” It’s positive.

Talking about and accepting my disorders is the most radically positive thing I can do. It isn’t pessimism; it’s optimism. It isn’t defeatism; it’s hope. It’s direction, and action, and learning to regain control of my life.

So I don’t give a fuck if it annoys you or makes you uncomfortable. I don’t care if you think I need to think of myself as “more than my disorders”. Because I don’t think that having disorders makes me lesser. And I’m not going to silence myself because you disagree.

You’re fucking wrong, and I won’t let my own silence be the death of me.

cool-guy-senpai:

I fucking hate that trope in swordfighting where they just push grind the swords together as hard as they can while looking in each others eyes. Just fucking kick the other guy in his nuts! Not like he’s going to notice anyway while he’s staring intently at your beautiful eyes, and noticing your stubble, and damn, those lips look surprisingly rosy, and his golden hair…

taptrial2:

the reason why some autistic people have big talents is because we study what we love with a passion, and we practice what we love with a passion. it isn’t a gift, it’s information found and retained and discovered yourself or by learning from others. it’s a dedicated relationship between you and your “talent”, your “gift”, and when you push, it pushes back.

it’s also anxiety about being inadequate as an autistic person. am i talented enough to be allowed to be autistic? if i show people that i’m gifted like the people in articles and on tv, then will people be able to say autism without looking as though they just licked a raw lemon for the first time but are trying their best to keep their composure?

there’s a pressure on us to have talents and be so talented that neurotypical people gape. but then when we do work hard and learn and study and practice and develop skills with intense love and passion, sometimes for years, people assume that it wasn’t us, it was a gift from god. it wasn’t work or dedication, it was a miracle that came out of thin air, because autistic people don’t learn or work, we are gifted.

(neurotypicals and allistics can reblog, but please don’t add commentary.)