transkrem:

Coercive heteronormativity is a super important discussion to be had. Its a real thing that is devastating to a lot of people.

But if you derail a bi post by bringing it up I’m going to straight up assume you’re biphobic.

clumsiestballerina:

riverdryad:

Me

[image description: A tweet from @ charanderson98 that readsΒ β€œInnit weird how when ye hate someone everythin they post pisses u off like they tweetΒ β€œi love soup” n ur like aye a bet ye fuckin do” Translation just in case voiceover couldn’t read that:Β β€œIsn’t it weird how when ye hate someone, everything they post pisses you off, like they tweetΒ β€œI love soup” and you’re likeΒ β€œAye I bet ye fuckin do”]

positivedudes:

Aro mlm: your attraction to men is not dirty or wrong. It is still pure and good, and attraction to men isn’t softened or β€œmade better” by romance. You are not predatory or abusive. You are you, and that’s plenty good enough, and to be admired.

disk–horse:

a-spec:

aphobicpokemon:

a-spec:

aphobicpokemon:

a-spec:

a-spec:

aphobicpokemon:

a-spec:

aphobicpokemon:

a-spec:

aphobicpokemon:

since the ace community loves to erase lgbt identities i’m coining the term erace

what

there’s literally an ace flag for halsey who is very out about her sexuality

ive never heard of that but that sounds gross since shes bi but like i do not see what that has to do with all asexuals or β€œthe ace community”

y’all are trying to steal jughead a canonically gay coded character

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β€œcanonically gay coded”

also if u rlly wanna say hes gay,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, he can still be ace too because,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, gay aces exist

have you not read like any of the old archie comics ??? and yes bc gay men need to be further desexualized

yes i have thats why i saidΒ 
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#i understand arguing he was queer coded in the past tho”

and wow okay i guess im desexualizing myself by existing as a gay ace thanks

don’t use the q slur please & don’t expect me to read petty tags

taking a heavily gay coded character & making him ace is still erasure &

yeah?? isn’t that the point of being ace?? to desexualize yourself??

what the fuck

im just gonna save this for every time an aphobe thinks they fucking know what they’re talking about

aaa-hope:

hollowedskin:

if ur cis dont fucking tell trans people they’re pretending to be trans. i dont care if you’re not straight. the trans intracommunity discussion on dysphoria is not for you to fucking touch.

If you’re trans don’t tell people they’re pretending either, though.

It feels like this is giving respectability politics and invalidating trans/nb/gq people more authenticity than it deserves, as long as the person invalidating trans people is trans themself. Framing those things as an β€œintracommunity discussion” is really harmful.

A man saying β€œthere are only two genders, and genderqueer is not one of them, so you’re just pretending” (to put the typical position kindly) is not okay, regardless of whether that man is cis or trans. Even if he frames it as just a political opinion or an intracommunity discussion, that doesn’t change what it is and the harm it does.

I get that this post isn’t directed at trans people, but intentionally or not, it legitimizes treating people’s identities as a debate in the first place.