dorianshavilliard:

If you’re a lesbian and use the split attraction model to define yourself, that’s okay.

If you’re a lesbian and mental illness makes it difficult for you to grasp your sexuality, that’s okay.

If you’re a lesbian and trauma has made you aro or ace, that’s okay.

If you’re a lesbian through trauma, that’s okay.

If you’re a nonbinary lesbian and your gender makes your grasp on your sexuality shaky, that’s okay.

You’re still a lesbian. You’re not fake or Lesbian Lite.

And if you’re a lesbian who found yourself through the split of attraction model but don’t feel you need to use it anymore, that’s okay too.

You’re enough. You’re real and you’re beautiful.

And you’re okay.