bisexual-evanhansen:

me: *sees positivity post for specific subgroup of people*

me, rubbing my little gay hands together: ho ho HO! I have a friend who follows this blog who is part of that specific subgroup of people! and they are GREAT! hue hue HUE HUE, Iโ€™ll reblog this little wee post, and then theyโ€™ll see it, ha ha ha! THEN they will feel VALIDATED! hehehehhehehhehehe >:)

aceaventurine:

Sayingย โ€œWell, the Q is for Questioning!โ€ is not enough to make the community a safe place for questioning people.

Itโ€™s great to include them, but it doesnโ€™t mean a lot if in the meantime you constantly joke about people having an oppression fetish, trying to opt-out of their privilege out of guilt, or being silly cishets desperatly wanting to be โ€œkweerโ€ to be cool.

official-andy-warhol:

dorian hid that painting but I bet y’all if heโ€™d just hung it in his living room and been likeย โ€œoh yeah I get someone to come in and paint it to be slightly more gruesome every nightโ€ and everybody woulda been likeย โ€œI believe you you dramatic bitchโ€ย 

cookie-sheet-toboggan:

fun fact: you donโ€™t actually support ace-wlw if you canโ€™t support their ace identity Independent of their gay one. you donโ€™t get to accept their love for girls while overlooking the fact that theyโ€™re on the ace-spectrum and call it support for their queer identity. if you donโ€™t support aces you donโ€™t support ace-wlw.

flowerais:

take chances with people. if you want to get closer to them, make sure they know you want to spend time with them. go to have coffee with them, text them first, make them feel loved, tell them little things that you love about them. most people find it hard to make the first move, both in friendships and romantic relationships, so a lot of potential relationships never happen. life is too short. so go for it, because more often than not it can make life brighter and softer and happier.