Therapists are justβ¦. Common sense filters
Me: yeah so I just donβt have the energy to get up and make myself a sandwich or wait for something to cook so I just. Donβt
Her: why donβt you just eat the sandwich components without putting them together
Me:
Her: you can just eat a handful of cheese and some sandwich meat. You donβt have to make a sandwich.
Me:
Me: what
You dont have to make the sandwitch
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game theory:
which pokemon could i most easily kill with my bare hands?
current first place: Mr. Mime.
Not because Mr. Mime is particularly weak, but because if I ever saw a Mr. Mime in real life I would be filled with the exact power needed to kill a Mr. Mime
Tumblr culture is seeing an info post then seeing it a day later debunked and then seeing it a day later with the debunk debunked and then the next day the
A hard lesson: some people are intellectual flashers who go out into public spaces and open their mental raincoat and waggle their awful opinions at you without permission. You do not have to engage with these people.
i said seagulls
HM
stop it now
trans person names by cis people
birthname: tom
new name: tomella
To be honest Dorian Gray wasnβt evil or anything he was just a normal twink.
β¦ He killed a man and blackmailed another into dissolving the body with acid.
sometimes thatβs how it be
transmisogynist feminists who withdrew their solidarity from transgender women have essentially made themselves into βuseful idiotsβ for the greater reactionary movement.
when violence against transgender women is reframed as βmale violence against other males, and therefore not a feminist issue,β youβre fucking intellectually surrendering. Youβre a failure of a critical thinker. Youβre refusing to do the necessary work to analyze WHY men are violent towards transgender women, WHAT type of violence they commit, WHERE else these implications might lead! Youβre just being lazy.
As a feminist, youβre obligated to account for ALL of the social and material conditions of society in your conceptual understanding of that society. There are no social βexternalitiesβ that you get to ignore.
Youβre sweeping the epidemic of violence against transgender women and the structural oppression that makes that happen under the rug.
Do you really think that there are common numbers of men who are violently misogynistic against transgender women but perfect angels to cisgender women?
Men express their violent misogyny through the most socially acceptable channels.
That fundamental fact is why gendered violence is WORSE against women of color than on white women, WORSE against mentally ill women than neurotypical women, WORSE against poor women than rich women, WORSE against transgender women than cisgender women.
Itβs BECAUSE weβre discriminated against that men seek to express their violence, their sadistic sexual proclivities, their aggression, their vitriol against transgender women. Weβre an βacceptable target.β
Men donβt get LESS violent as they enact violence. Their horrible behavior towards transgender women, so long as it is tolerated, so long as it is allowed, so long as we are treated as disposable, is something they condition themselves to perform over and over and each time they are able to gratify themselves through violence, their proclivity towards violence is increased.
This is dangerous for EVERYONE.
You may allow right-wing-backed transgender bathroom bans to go through, but as you allow those right-wing men gaining political power, you will see them shut down abortion clinics and planned parenthood (the latter specifically hurts transgender women because planned parenthood administers HRT in many states).
I have seen transmisogynist feminists say things like βI am glad that this transgender woman will likely commit suicide.β Some of you claim that being transgender is a mental illness, or a paraphilia (regardless of the fact that the most advanced and up-to-date mental health organizations do not describe it that way, including the DSM-V). If your idea of feminism IS cheering on the death of people who are βmentally ill,β you are abandoning your humanity. Your justification for this behavior? βTransgender women are perverts.β Are we? Are gay men not also considered perverts by many? Are drag queens not also considered perverts by many? Are lesbians not also considered perverts by many? What exactly is your ETHICAL critique of transgender behavior? If you do not have one, then you are simply regurgitating right-wing talking points.
You say that transgender women are βviolent men.β But we share no solidarity with men. We are attacked by men. Transgender women suffer disproportionately high rates of physical violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment, workplace harassment, academic harassment, compared to cisgender women.
I mean for fucks sake. If you really doubt these discrimination claims that iβm making just read this:
http://www.thetaskforce.org/static_html/downloads/reports/reports/ntds_full.pdf
Whatever. Iβm done. I have solidarity with women as a class and I am part of that economic, social, political class. If youβre choosing to deny that, then youβre hurting me, youβre hurting the feminist movement, and youβre hurting yourself.
Itβs your choice to be receptive to what other people say or to deny it. Itβs not hard to deny everything that doesnβt agree with your views. But empathy and critical thinking that requires you to step outside of your own point of view is the only way you can really understand other people.
girls donβt like boys, girls like the pastoral escapist fantasy of living in a large house with many friends and several pets on a beautiful chunk of land with no financial, political, or medical anxieties. also, bread.Β
All you anti milkers are fools. Imagine a milkless world. No cakes nor pies. What are you putting in your coffee to cool it down? Water? Appley juice? I hate all of you.
