new rule: genderbends are now illegal and must be replaced with trans headcanons. if you break this law the down with cis bus comes after you
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just wait someone’s going to correct me on that last post and say “actually, I’m a 22 year old conservative trans guy, take that for your stereotypes”
transmed voice: I have never once considered psychology as a discipline to be anything but completely Objective. If something is listed as a mental illness, then it is! I’ve never heard of the word “pathologisation” in my life and I don’t have enough historical knowledge to understand how science and academia can be tools against marginalised people. I’ve never heard about how women masturbating and black people wanting to escape slavery have also been classified as mental illnesses, or i’m naive enough to think that the systems that once enabled this have changed or dissapeared.
i also just hate trans people who scrape enough self-esteem together to not hate their body, and will fight against trans positivity at every turn 🙂 This is what I Objectively think as a Fellow Trans, and i’m going to avoid thinking about how every thing i say benefits TERFs and other people who will send me to conversion camp the second they get the chance 🙂
i’m also a conservative or libertarian leaning trans guy under the age of 21
sorry if me Stating the Facts offends you sweaty :’)
anyone else telling me i should despise myself enough to be a truscum will be blocked
“mogai tumblr made it hard to figure out my gender/sexuality when first coming out”
consider: You don’t have to have a vendetta against queers with the “weird” genders and sexualities, especially teenagers, because you used to consider yourself one of them
also consider: the answer to “my identity was hard to figure out” is not to make it harder for other people. erasing other people’s identities will not make your own more visible. MOGAI people actually quite often find it helpful to have words for their identities, like yourself, and everyone else in the world
also consider: your anger is misdirected. heteronormativity hurt you several billion times more than the split attraction model ever could. No one who IDs as frostgender has the social capital to gaslight and coerce children from birth into a gender. straight and cis people are 100% to blame for the shame we’re made to feel for our identities and placing blame on young queers achieves nothing but furthering that shame. there is no good political goal that can be achieved by bullying mogais you nasty fucks
I’m just frustrated because of how much these people set me back. Even now, I constantly doubt myself because “What if the only reason I feel this way is because I’m still confused?” Things would have been so much easier if I would have been properly taught the relations between gender and sex from the beginning instead of being fed the bullshit that this community fed me. Heteronormativity has not hurt me. This community has. I’m not trying to make it harder for anyone. In fact, I’m just trying to spread the truth so they don’t have to be so confused and frustrated for longer than they have to.
“Heteronormativity has not hurt me. This community has” thanks, anti-sjw and transmedicalist guy, count me enlightened. wait are you saying cishet culture has taught you better about sex and gender than ‘this community’ has?
Actually, no. It was a bunch of transgender people, believe it or not. Trans people who actually know what they’re talking about. But seriously. I didn’t even know the proper definition of transgender until I stepped out of the stupid bubble of that community and accepted facts. I’d suggest doing some research yourself :).
the definition of us being all mentally ill, thanks. Do you think, however, that definition serves people who dismiss us and want to fix the trans out of us, a lot more than it serves us, trans people? like i’m pretty cool where I am, and that’s not actively shooting myself in the foot, or letting cis people define me, thanks
I can’t believe the latest Doctor Who episode was about how a lesbian crush can transcend time and space
Do white ppl realize that when they defend their use of crytyping “jokes” on the basis that they were originally used by PoC/black ppl to call out racism, they’re only making it clear they’re racist as as hell in addition to ableist?
Like piss off taking things from PoC dealing with racism to mock people whenever you feel like it for any crappy reason, including PoC, including nd PoC who are telling you to stop your ableist bullshit.
And like this mess had dip whom many many of the anti-ace/aro crowd supported harassing people into breakdowns, who would then accuse these people of being manipulative and/or make fun of them for it, and her many (often white) supporters would join in or loudly condone it, I pretty clearly remember that. So when you say “it’s just mocking people who’re being manipulative and faking and who deserve being mocked”, excuse me for not believing you all are the best judges of that. That you don’t care about the many nd ppl and good number of nd PoC who are telling you they’re being hurt by this, when ppl are using it for crapcourse overall and stuff that’s definitely not calling out racism, is already telling.
Anyway if you’re white you have 500% no place touching those “jokes” piss off racist ableist scum
you know you can have a tag for #reclaimed words or #reclaimed slurs as like a general catch-all tag
you don’t need to pick out #Q slur specifically, and if you do that but leave words like dyke untagged, you’re an asshole. what you’re doing is performing how much you dislike the word and people who use it.
especially because if the Word Itself is in the post, it will be blacklisted. you only need to tag it in case it’s misspelled in the post, so blacklisting programs still pick it up. That’s it. All your #Q slur tag is doing is cataloguing all the times you performed outrage at the word.
@ All the anons who keep telling me Snape is sapiosexual
why do all of you keep missing the pun Snapiosexual
