If you’re a lesbian and use the split attraction model to define yourself, that’s okay.
If you’re a lesbian and mental illness makes it difficult for you to grasp your sexuality, that’s okay.
If you’re a lesbian and trauma has made you aro or ace, that’s okay.
If you’re a lesbian through trauma, that’s okay.
If you’re a nonbinary lesbian and your gender makes your grasp on your sexuality shaky, that’s okay.
You’re still a lesbian. You’re not fake or Lesbian Lite.
And if you’re a lesbian who found yourself through the split of attraction model but don’t feel you need to use it anymore, that’s okay too.
You’re enough. You’re real and you’re beautiful.
And you’re okay.
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het dating articles are just: how to hack men into treating you like a person
het dating articles pt2: How to hack women into liking you by treating her like a person
do you think the harry potter kids have ever seen shrek
anyway not to be That Person but like every time some cis lesbian is like “oh no!!! dicks in my femslash!!” it just makes me want to write approx 2000 more non-op girls out of pure unmitigated spite
a billion dicks? in my femslash? its more likely than you think
people you shouldn’t trust:
•boys who like Rick and Morty
• i’m sure there are more people you shouldn’t trust but the first point just feels really important right now
shoutout to my Dumb ravenclaw lesbians! my girls who dont know shit!!!!!! you are valid!!!!!! i see you!!!!!
Concept: What if there was a community that observed a prolonged period of silence, during which vocalization was forbidden, on a regular basis (say, one day a week) due to religious/cultural reasons? Such a community would undoubtedly develop a sign language if the tradition was maintained long enough. Deaf members of the community might be admired or accorded an honored status within the context of the day of silence because they would likely be viewed as having no temptation to break the silence. If religious services or ceremonies were conducted on the day of silence, a writing system for the sign language might be developed in order record the prayers and or other signed texts used throughout the day.
Regarding the relationship between the spoken and signed language, the sign language might simply be a signed mode of the spoken language, like Signed Exact English. It might be a different register or dialect of the spoken language, with a greater or lesser amount of grammatical and lexical differences. Or, it might be a completely unrelated language, as American Sign Language is to English. All of these possibilities are attested in various communities which have or historically had sign languages which were used in addition to or instead of the community’s spoken language in various contexts.
This has happened! In a lot of Australian Aboriginal languages and clans, sign languages have evolved as registers to replace dialogue in traditional avoidance relationships, for example a man is supposed to never speak directly to his mother in law, so he either communicates with her via a third person or they use sign languages. Usually the most proficient in these registers and languages are elderly women who’ve had to undergo a long mourning period, during which they aren’t allowed to speak to anyone but can communicate in sign. These women often become fluent and are able to communicate just as efficiently and clearly in sign amongst themselves as they would be able to work a spoken language.
Today is International Trans Day of Visibility. If you see a trans person climbing in through your window and stealing pasta from your kitchen, ignore them. This is not new. This is a regular occurrence, but this is the only day of the year when you can actually see them do it.
Riley J. Dennis is honestly a gem
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A collection of tweets from Riley J. Dennis (@RileyJDennis) on Twitter
I’ve still never seen a trans woman (who’s not a random twitter egg troll) claim that you HAVE to fuck them or you HAVE to like dick
some trans women: “society views us as unattractive and that’s harmful”
come cis women: “YEAH WELL I DON’T WANNA FUCK YOU”
…okay coollike this is always framed as “poor cis lesbians being attacked by trans women who demand to be fucked” but that’s never been our argument
“it’s not transphobic to have a preference for one type of genitals over the other” is true in the same way “all lives matter” is true
yes those statements are technically correct but they’re used to avoid deeper discussions about cissexist/racist issues in our societyÂ
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I just thought of the worst post I can ever make
I officially endorse the decision to make said post.
Don’t say I didn’t warn you
When your mouth open wide and then man crawls inside
that’s a-vore-e
This might be. the actual worst thing.
I don’t want this either but if I have to suffer then so do all of you.





