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mean-and-gay:

clitemoji:

“mogai tumblr made it hard to figure out my gender/sexuality when first coming out”

consider: You don’t have to have a vendetta against queers with the “weird” genders and sexualities, especially teenagers, because you used to consider yourself one of them

also consider: the answer to “my identity was hard to figure out” is not to make it harder for other people. erasing other people’s identities will not make your own more visible. MOGAI people actually quite often find it helpful to have words for their identities, like yourself, and everyone else in the world

also consider: your anger is misdirected. heteronormativity hurt you several billion times more than the split attraction model ever could. No one who IDs as frostgender has the social capital to gaslight and coerce children from birth into a gender. straight and cis people are 100% to blame for the shame we’re made to feel for our identities and placing blame on young queers achieves nothing but furthering that shame. there is no good political goal that can be achieved by bullying mogais you nasty fucks

anyways i was convinced that i was some fun variety of mixed up confusing terms when in reality i was so fucking self conscious i couldnt even fantasize abt other people being attracted to me. instead of, like, working on self image i just told myself i was lithosexual and ignored the very harmful effects that this had on my self image and self esteem.

and i’m really glad, it sounds like you’re in a much better place now! but from your tone and shit exclusionist blog I’m realising this was an attempt to disprove me? when you just said this was all the cause of your own low self esteem. it’s right there. so do you think lithosexuals are to blame for your self esteem issues, or do you want to read the post again until it clicks in?

lumeahangitei:

sad-eyed-lady-of-the-low-lands:

queerseth:

whaching:

being gay doesnt excuse you from being transphobic and racist lmao whoops

being trans or gay doesn’t excuse you from being racist, aphobic, bi/panphobic, xenophobic, ect.

being marginalised in one way doesn’t prevent you from contributing to the marginalisation of others.

What the fuck do you mean with “aphobic”? you do realise that it would mean “someone with lack of phobias”, right?!

and homophobia means a fear of human beings

it’s almost like English words take on their own meaning outside of Greek grammar

“mogai tumblr made it hard to figure out my gender/sexuality when first coming out”

consider: You don’t have to have a vendetta against queers with the “weird” genders and sexualities, especially teenagers, because you used to consider yourself one of them

also consider: the answer to “my identity was hard to figure out” is not to make it harder for other people. erasing other people’s identities will not make your own more visible. MOGAI people actually quite often find it helpful to have words for their identities, like yourself, and everyone else in the world

also consider: your anger is misdirected. heteronormativity hurt you several billion times more than the split attraction model ever could. No one who IDs as frostgender has the social capital to gaslight and coerce children from birth into a gender. straight and cis people are 100% to blame for the shame we’re made to feel for our identities and placing blame on young queers achieves nothing but furthering that shame. there is no good political goal that can be achieved by bullying mogais you nasty fucks

trans-mom:

cyanide-and-razorblades:

trans-mom:

Things I’ve gotten tired of explaining over the past six years, *cheerleader voice* readyyyy?? Ok!

-Cis isn’t an acronym.
-Trans isn’t short for “transition.”
-Transition doesn’t strictly only mean hormones and surgeries, there’s more to it than that.
-Medical transition is incredibly costly, even in places where the healthcare is free*.
-Trans people self medicating hrt is a sign that the medical systems around the world are horrid towards trans people, don’t be assholes to them.
-Cis people can’t be “truscum,” the literal definition of “truscum” involves being “transsexual.” Cis people are just transphobic.
-Don’t describe others as mtf/ftm. Just don’t.
-“transtrender” is transphobic.

Not all cis people are transphobic or homophobic or anything of the sort.

My post doesn’t say that or anything related to it. Please don’t curtail my post over irrelevance.

why the fuck would you add that kind of comment from a depression &self harm blog?

Do you only think white girls can be lesbians? Girls still eat each other out on their periods. You don’t know anything about lesbian sex it’s ok.

doe-bii:

1.) I’m Mexican and I love girls ya dumbo

2.) I don’t give a shit if you’re a heterosexual couple, a homosexual couple or just a couple where one or both parties have a vagina… if you have any kind of sex, especially ORAL sex during a period that’s fucking nasty and I’m praying to god y’all see the light

Also my first anon hate is some terfy trying to do period sex discourse with me I’m

#unsanitary

hello please use a dental dam! they’re an important barrier to prevent STI’s and assorted grossness during oral sex on either vaginas and butts! a very important part of every lesbian’s toolkit 10/10 would recommend